We sent a text after DD was born and it was something like this " C and N are proud to announce the arrival of S. Mum and bub are doing fine and we will let you know when we are up for visitors" ........ If people know you are having a C-sect on Wed then you can send something like this "Baby Y is due via C-Sect on Wed and we kindly ask for no visitors until Friday (or until notified again) so mum has ample recovery time"

Best of luck hun x x x x